I am afraid we didn’t like this site at all, the big turn off for us was adding in the help pages that you shouldn't give your contact details out in your audio profile unless you are comfortable doing so.

This is obviously designed to let everyone know contact details may be found in audio profiles and they reap in the £1.50 per minute from the standard members trying to get the contact details.

This is putting their members at risk for a quick buck. Most dating sites protect their members contact details, and do not allow contact details to be advertised by their users under any circumstances.

Yes this has a primary function of encouraging the user to sign up and take out a full membership in order to contact other users.

But a more important side affect is the dating site has control of the contact, your details are not given out, You can still give out your details once contact has been made, but then you know who is getting them, in an audio message or in your profile, everybody has access to them.

Everything else we found pals into insignificance along side this, The users safety is our primary concern and if we find anything that jeopardises this, we will make sure we report it.

This is a great site, offering our brave Armed Forces a great way to meet somebody meaningful, without the awkwardness of explaining they may be away for months at a time.

The nature of the site means anyone they meet is already aware of this, this will make concentrating on developing a relationship that much simpler.

The snail mail contact list is a great addition, when your away from home like our armed forces are, receiving a physical letter written on actual paper, can be the highlight of the day, and is always something to look forward to.

If you are attracted to the soldier type, this is a site right up your street. the site also accepts civilians, so even if you’re not the sort to fall for a soldier, you can still find the love of your life here, and as dating sites go this is relatively inexpensive.

We found this site very confusing, some functions are not available from all pages, so to use it you need to also remember where it is located.

Saying that this site has a lot going for it, once you have learnt your way around this site, and can navigate with confidence, you can get a lot out of it, there is a lot for an unpaid member to do, they can interact with paid members, though the class system introduced by displaying a members level means that few will give a standard member the time of day.

To get the fill benefit from FriendFinder you really do need to become a paid member, it very frustrating, for unpaid members knowing they can speak to other members in the chat room, and be ignored because they can see you only have a standard membership.

With Gold membership this site is amazing, but remember even if you pay for Gold membership, other members can exclude you from search results if you don’t verify your identity.

This is much more than just a dating site, there is a huge established community using this site, this site could be all you ever need, well worth having a look, we would recommend it.